How to Handle Yourself When Your Spouse Cheats on You






It is common these days for a married man to have a side chick or babe.And some men and even women might assume that you are not going with the trends if you are not a cheating spouse.


A cheating partner leaves the heart of his spouse wounded and scarred for a long time.

So this is how in my opinion you can take care of yourself when you find out that your partner is cheating on you.

Forgive: It's going to be hard to do this but it is necessary both for your well being and your relationship with God.

Keep your self-esteem: I know this is hard but you have to keep your head up. It is not the end of the world, you could decide to continue in the relationship or not but don’t let it be a thing that will make you a shadow of yourself for the rest of your life. C.giles in an article on livestrong.com says" that your spouse cheating on you is not a reflection of your attractiveness and value as a woman". I think it’s important you put those words in your heart no matter how anyone tries to make you feel guilty about his actions.


Take care of yourself: Don’t let you go, pick yourself up and practice self-love. You were a person before you met your spouse and had a family. And you might have invested so much in the relationship that it becomes hard for you to face the reality of what things have now become. But this is the reality now and your well-being is needed for you to be able to face tomorrow especially if you have kids.


Keep your social circle: Many women, once married leave their single friends behind. I really don’t know why this happens frequently but I think sometimes your friends provide a shoulder to lean on in times like this.

Stay close to your family: Some women also do not keep in touch with their own families but in my experience your family will always love you no matter what. They are the ones you can run too when things get out of hand. Some women might be afraid to leave a spouse who in addition to his infidelity is abusive because they can’t find anywhere else to go. But I think if you harness your relationship with your family members, you will be able to find somewhere to get away from all the drama until you are able to think straight and make wise decisions according to God’s specific instructions to you.

Invest in yourself: Keep on adding to yourself intellectually, socially, financially, and every way that will help you feel empowered. Also look for ways to impact the life of others. This will help you feel fulfilled and happy in the long term.




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